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Hi, Dan again

Sunday, October 5th, 2008
Hello 
As always I am late to send another Blog, I know I should do better but I am on bed rest and have been for a couple of years (I have a couple of really bad pressure sores) and after nursing for the sores and other issues and Physiotherapy  and a rest in the day it sort of slips my mind, also for those that know all the hassle of carers and so on can be time consuming, not to say depressing if you allow it to be.
I have a new baby brother Dylan, my dad and my step mum had him last month and he is amazing, he looks beautiful and is really good, I love having him laying with me he already gives great cuddles and he’s only 18 days old.  something odd with my dad as every male in our house starts with the initial D, David, Dean, Daniel and now Dylan, fortunately we have Claire my step mum, the mail is a nightmare. To Mr D Nicholls!
The web site gets better every time I look and I can’t thank the guys behind it enough they have and are doing a great job it looks very cool. I try not to get too involved in the cure side that the charity supports as for those that are in this position will understand, I can’t afford to raise my hopes or set target dates, I just take each day as it comes and listen to my dad and what he tells me is happening, he is also good as he never says it will happen in two years or three years, all he says is there are some amazing scientists out there and what was once an impossible dream to cure Paralysis is now a real possibility at some point in the future. I am very proud of him and all his friends and colleagues that have done so much for spinal injured people. He could have just sat back and said leave it to them but that’s not his style, my dad’s a real doer, a let’s make it happen type of guy!
Dean as always is my main support he is simply the best brother in the world. He is amazing and I could not be in the place I am now (mentally) without him, he also does all my Physio. He recently passed his driving test so I am really pleased that he can get about easier without always asking for lifts etc.
The sport this year has been great, the Olympics were really good, then there was the Ryder cup (we could and should have done better, I am not in to Golf at all but my dad will watch two old ladies playing the game, he is mad about it!) and now the football seasons here, I will be glad to get off the bed rest so I can go and see Arsenal, I am a season ticket holder but can’t go at present.
Watch strictly come dancing, two of the patrons and dads friend, Gary Rhodes and Austin Healy are in it, although Austin seems to be doing better than Gary at present, I hope Gary stays in a bit longer, he is a great guy and I would like to see him stay, although I think Austin is my favourite to win it, he just looks really great at dancing.
Anyway enough from me, 
Thanks for reading the blogs and hitting the web site.
Dan

Sorry for the long delay

Monday, June 30th, 2008

Sorry for the long delay,

 

Bed rest still after almost three years tends to make you lose track of time!

 

Just a short update to what I am doing.

 

As I have said still on bed rest but the good news is it is starting to look much better and I should be up in a few months time I hope.

 

Just about ready for the football season and I can go and watch Arsenal where I am a season ticket holder, but have not been for three years because of the sores. It would be great if we can have a better season than last year and hopefully if Ronaldo goes man united will be less of an odds on certainty to  win so much, but I am sure the last thig they want is for him to go especially the fans that stuck by him. Tonight’s the European championships final and I really would like to see Spain win that as they have played some great football.

 

Life can get pretty boring at times if you let it, but I think I try to take each day as it comes really and focus on tomorrow. I don’t know what I would ever do without my brother Dean who is amazing. Soon we will have to start looking at new wheelchairs and all the transport issues as I come off bed rest, which will in itself be a challenge.

 

The European football has been really good and formula one and world super bikes keep me going and I don’t know what I would do without the TV and Sky to keep me amused all day. As well as I have Physiotherapy four times a week to keep my range and movement as subtle as possible (if I did not I would be as stiff as a board) thats normally about one to one and a half hours and sometimes hurts like hell and other times is fine, that often makes me sleep well though as physical stuff really wipes it out of you.

 

Anyway just a short blog today as I am having some physio with my dad and brother before the football tonight.

 

Post again soon

 

Dan